To begin, I have always been attracted to my wife; we have been together for 15 years. I’m 43 and she’s 37. Our son was born eight weeks ago. Since then, my libido towards my wife has been wild. I can’t stop thinking about her or staring at her. I am literally a walking hard-on. I’m just not sure how to handle it. I’ve even had strange dreams about her degrading me and telling me to cook dinner, among other things. And that actually turns me on. I know she can see “it”. I absolutely see why I’m not getting any affection from here. She has a lot on her plate. When I get home from work, I cook dinner and change as many diapers as possible. Try to give her some breaks from the boy. We have an excellent parenting dynamic. She is my hero as well as a goddess among men. I’m so enraged for her it hurts. How do I address this?
My husband’s behavior after I gave birth was bothersome. He realized that I wasn’t yet healed enough to accomplish anything, yet he still wanted to be hands-on. I was exhausted, heeling, aching, stressed, emotional, in a body I wasn’t used to, my boobs hurting, and did I mention tired?
It was wonderful to know he was drawn to me, but…I didn’t need to be touched a few weeks after having a baby.
In conclusion, tell her she’s lovely and doing a fantastic job, give her a kiss, then go masturbate alone and call it a day 
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This is the right answer 