Hi guys…
Am facing a challenging situation and could use some advice. My husband is currently down with what seems like a pretty bad cold, and we’re dealing with a winter season where RSV and a few COVID cases are circulating. I asked him to wear a mask around our 11-week-old baby to prevent any potential spread, but he responded jokingly that we need to “raise ‘em strong.” I didn’t want to push too hard since he said it in a joking manner, but it’s really bothering me.
I recently learned that a friend’s 4-month-old had to be hospitalized due to RSV bronchiolitis, and when I mentioned this to my husband, he dismissed my concerns, saying that our baby will be fine because he’s breastfed. He also thinks I’m overprotective, but I feel I’m just trying to keep our baby safe.
I’m struggling with how to address this without being labeled as overly sensitive. Any advice on how to handle this situation while keeping the focus on our baby’s well-being?
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I faced a similar situation when my little one was around the same age. My husband also thought I was being overly cautious, but I insisted on taking precautions. Babies are delicate, especially during their first few months. Wearing a mask around the baby is a small step that can make a big difference. I found that calmly sharing information about RSV and its risks helped my husband understand the seriousness without feeling criticized. Your baby’s health is the top priority, and it’s okay to be protective.
Educate Gently
Share information about the potential risks of RSV and other illnesses to infants.
Emphasize that it’s about prevention and not just immediate health.
Mentioning that even breastfed babies can get sick might help.
I totally understand where you’re coming from. I recently had to navigate a similar situation when my husband caught a nasty cold during a particularly harsh winter. With our newborn at home and various viruses like RSV and COVID going around, I felt really anxious about keeping our baby safe. When I suggested he wear a mask around our baby, he initially laughed it off, but I calmly explained the risks and shared stories like your friend’s hospitalization experience. I emphasized it wasn’t about being overprotective but about preventing potential serious health issues for our baby. Ultimately, he understood my concerns and agreed to take precautions. My advice is to have a gentle yet firm conversation, focusing on the baby’s health and providing clear reasons for your request. Sometimes framing it as a temporary measure for the baby’s safety can help them see your perspective without feeling judged.