I’m expecting a baby soon, and I’m starting to worry about how to handle visitors and family members who will want to see the baby right after birth. With everything being so overwhelming, I want to make sure we manage visits politely but effectively. How can I set boundaries and organize visits without causing any hurt feelings or stress for myself and my partner?
It’s totally normal to feel a bit overwhelmed. Here’s a trick: set up a “Welcome Wagon” calendar. Share it with family and friends so they can book their visit slots. This way, you control the flow without hurting feelings. Maybe toss in some “baby nap time” blocks to give you a breather. Remember, it’s okay to say no or reschedule if you need space. You and your little one come first—everyone will understand.
Set clear visiting hours and communicate your needs politely. Use a calendar to manage visits and keep it flexible.