Do you use the phrase “gave birth” while referring to your c-section? I am still coming to terms with the reality that my baby son was born by c-section 27 hours after a difficult induction, so I understand I’m a little sensitive about this. I also never want to imply that I had a vaginal birth in case people believe I’m trying to distort what happened. So, with that said, should I declare I “gave birth”? Is it only that my son was born?
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Oh love, you brought a child into this world. You have given birth. Hugs.
I rephrased “you brought a child into the world” to include the wonderful mamas who had babies born asleep.
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I am having a C-section in 8 weeks, and reading this comment made me cry. Early in my pregnancy, I realized that different people have varied perspectives on this… But you are correct… I am bringing life into this earth.
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Yes, and the baby’s 40 weeks of development are more important than the particular technique by which they exit.
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Absolutely. I am also having twins, so I need to do what is best for both me and the babies. Thank you.
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You are doing the finest thing for your youngsters. This is 100 times better than those who focus on the “birth experience” while ignoring their babies’ health.