Does anyone else feel irrationally angry when their baby won't sleep in the middle of the night?

Lior said:
My baby goes to bed at midnight and wakes at 3. I’ve reached the depression stage of grief.

Mine stayed awake until 6:30 last night. Praying for us both tonight!

I send rage texts to my husband while he works, my 8-month-old wakes every 3 hours.

Keaton said:
I send rage texts to my husband while he works, my 8-month-old wakes every 3 hours.

That’s totally valid.

Keaton said:
I send rage texts to my husband while he works, my 8-month-old wakes every 3 hours.

I’m doing both night feeds, while he just can’t handle being tired.

We went through the same thing! It lasted a while, but he eventually grew out of it.

YES! Sometimes I feel so mad, and it’s hard to cope.

I started listening to podcasts or music during those times. It’s helped my frustration.

I relied on co-sleeping during those tough nights. It was a lifesaver!

It’s just a phase, likely due to sleep regression.

Sleep deprivation is real. Lean on your partner for support when you feel this way.

Feeling frustrated is normal. Would you consider trying sleep training?

Look at the entire sleeping schedule, including daytime naps. He may need less daytime sleep now.

Amber said:
Look at the entire sleeping schedule, including daytime naps. He may need less daytime sleep now.

We transitioned to one nap, and he’s been in bed by 8 PM.

Don’t worry; it will get better! My son did much better by 11 months.

It’s completely reasonable to feel mad when you’re exhausted.

Ainsley said:
It’s completely reasonable to feel mad when you’re exhausted.

He just stares and smiles at me, which is more frustrating! :weary:

I find that my patience fades if it’s been a while since my last pump!

Consider whether the baby is eating enough during the day or if teething is an issue.

I get so angry when I think she’s asleep, then she cries when I step away.

It’s not irrational to be angry when you’re exhausted. Co-sleeping may help you.